I want a dog. I have since I could say the word dawg.
And I’m a responsible working adult. I have my own place (rented with a roomie) and I have some moolah to play with.
But, I know I’m too busy. Here’s the thing – I work 8 hours a day, and this doesn’t include travel time. I like going out with my friends on weekends and playing rec sports on Wednesday nights. Some days I’m able to sneak home for lunch hour, but that’s only if work isn’t crazy. Plus, when there’s a big deadline sometimes I have to stay at the office late or work on my laptop from home.
Tinder’s lame & I’m still single, but I have this one guy on the go.
I feel stressed out writing this. It’s so much pressure on one person to be responsible for another living creature above and beyond herself. Let’s say these thoughts are happening in Jaunary post-Christmas maximum social time?
You want a dog but the weather is poop – it’s cold and snowy, or rainy if you’re living in the Pacific Northwest. Plus, there’s the arduous task of leashing up a dog to go out in the pouring rain & if they’re a pitty-mix they’re dodging you because they don’t like getting water in their ears.
Heading down the road of worst-case scenarios, what if the dog goes destructo-mode when it’s left alone?
This means testing a few methods until you find a couple that work for you:
- gradual departures
- mental stimulation
- small breaks
- checking in throughout the day to make sure the dog hasn’t eaten (or humped!!) the couch and hasn’t left you a Hershey’s Kiss as a token for leaving them alone for a half a day
The rationale people use when adopting a puppy is that they can structure the dogs’s behaviour from the get-go.
- Make plans to hike with a friend and her dog. Offer to towel off the dog after it runs through mud.
- Visit your local animal shelter and sign up to volunteer.
- Volunteer in fundraising efforts along with a rescue you like. We offered to volunteer at an event we would have otherwise bought tickets to, and guess what? We got to run the poopy – sorry – puppy pit. Obsessive folks swept in and would hang on to these 10 week old puppies for as long as they could. I’m pretty sure some would have snuck them out in their purse if we hadn’t been watching like hawks.
- Foster FIRST. Read more about this here.
- Offer your home as an overnight or temporary place for regular fosters to have their dogs go when they head out on short vacations or get away for a weekend.